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		<title>5 Steps To Writing An Effective Online Dating Profile</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 08 May 2012 13:56:46 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Arjen</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Online Dating Sites]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[You may be looking for your first love, a new partner or just a soul mate to share some great time with. And you decided to do this online as where else do you find the time these days. But before you do so there are things you need to understand about dating online. So [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>You may be looking for your first love, a new partner or just a soul mate to share some great time with. And you decided to do this online as where else do you find the time these days. But before you do so there are things you need to understand about dating online. So once you have looked into the rules and how to safe guard yourself online you are ready to move on to the next step.</p>
<h3><span style="color: #333333;">Writing An Effective Online Dating Profile</span></h3>
<p>If you wish to get the best out of your online dating membership, try and present a good impression and make note of the following strategies:</p>
<p><strong>1) Have a correctly completed profile</strong></p>
<p>If you were browsing a dating site and came across unfinished profiles you would feel that you have wasted good time and would leave that page. So will others who look at your profile too if it is not correctly completed. But as I said make sure it is complete and honest, but also insightful and grabs the attention of those looking at it.</p>
<p><strong>2) Smile…</strong></p>
<p>It is a well known fact that people who upload a profile picture get up to five times more responses than those who do not upload a picture with their profile. And belief me you don’t have to have model looks, any photograph is better than no photo at all.</p>
<p><strong>3) Looking for Mr. or Ms. Right?</strong></p>
<p>We all have had our fair share of bad experiences with past partners. This is no reason to create a list of those ridiculous requirements a potential partner should adhere to. This way you may better not bother at all starting your online dating journey. When looking for Mr. or Ms. Right you don’t want to turn it into a job interview. This way you destroy all romance, fascination and enthusiasm from dating online…</p>
<p><strong>4)Watch your language</strong></p>
<p>We all use our own language to express ourselves, but using certain words or language in your user profile, when chatting or in emails should be considered carefully!</p>
<p>The language or words you use can discourage people so be careful with this one. Yes colourful language can work well in face-to-face conversations, but without any real context the use of certain words can make you appear the wrong person for potential dates.</p>
<p><strong>5) Sell yourself</strong></p>
<p>Just be sincere in your online profile, but also highlight your finest characteristics. It would be wrong to say you are some loner without any friends, so instead you could write you really are a true individual. You will have to sell yourself but without being deceitful or make you appear to be somebody you are not.</p>
<p>It is important to be patient, because it will take time to discover someone special using a dating site. But when you do it really will pay off in the end. All things considered, spend some time to complete your internet dating user profile. If you really want to find that special individual, it is more than worth it eventually.<br />
And yes you may have to talk to some individuals initially. So are you ready to start finding your soul mate?</p>
<p>There are many dating sites online, some are of high quality and some you have to be careful with. A great dating site I came across is cupid.com, they cover many areas in the UK. Some examples are London dating, Birmingham dating and <strong><a href="http://www.cupid.com/local-singles/uk/Leeds/Leeds.html" target="_blank">Leeds dating</a></strong> to name but a few. When following the above 5 steps you are well on your way to finding that special person. Good luck&#8230;</p>
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		<title>Lady Gaga Ball Tour Turns On Thousands Of Adult Dating Fans In Seoul</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 28 Apr 2012 09:14:24 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>michelle</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Call her flamboyant, quirky, awesome or intriguingly weird in the most controversial way possible, Lady Gaga spices things up in the capital of South Korea with her next concert starting on 2nd of May. And it spices them so bad that everyone has already started to debate the odds for this lovely promiscuous artist to [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Call her flamboyant, quirky, awesome or intriguingly weird in the most controversial way possible, Lady Gaga spices things up in the capital of South Korea with her next concert starting on 2<sup>nd</sup> of May.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.imyoursdatingsites.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/04/adult-party.jpg"><img class="alignnone size-full wp-image-271" title="Adult Wild Concert" src="http://www.imyoursdatingsites.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/04/adult-party.jpg" alt="" width="551" height="349" /></a></p>
<p>And it spices them so bad that everyone has already started to debate the odds for this lovely promiscuous artist to “taint” the young spirits with her “obscene” and “pornographic” performances. At least this is what her opponents fiercely claim following to a kick off adults-only debut in Seoul, where under age fans were sent home and approximately 45.000 singles or married wild adults attended the eccentric show.</p>
<p>Many more anxious fans are waiting to take advantage of this firebrand event ,with Hong Kong next on the list, ready to outnumber the few protestants.</p>
<p>The internet already buzzes about it. Naughty adults, fans who appreciate freedom of expression, willing to understand how sexuality is an art that perfectly fits music and that constantly pushes boundaries spread the word. They do it on computers or mobile phones, taking advantage of the World Wide Web to speak out loud.</p>
<p>This is by far a major happening in a rather conservative country. If, for now, the so-called “Civilians Network against the Lady Gaga Concert” locally counter strikes this promising concert, people are lucky enough to be able to manifest their interest in a saucy and mind-blowing dirty concert promised by Lady Gaga.</p>
<p>As there is no reason for adults to be deprived from a depraved concert so anxiously expected, married people &#8211; bring your wives, lovers or mistresses, singles- grab your naughty partner or find one on an <a href="http://www.verynaughty.co.uk/">adult dating website</a> and get ready for a wild  experience!</p>
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		<title>Samsung eclipses Nokia, mobile phone dating to eclipse computer dating</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 27 Apr 2012 17:02:40 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>admin</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Dating]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[When mobile phones became popular American company Motorola was the leading by the number of handsets it sells to the rest of the world, Finish company Nokia then came on the market with innovative handsets to overtake Motorola as number one mobile phone manufacturer. Nokia has occupied the number one spot for many years until [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div id="attachment_259" class="wp-caption alignleft" style="width: 310px"><a href="http://www.imyoursdatingsites.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/04/saucydatingmobile.gif"><img src="http://www.imyoursdatingsites.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/04/saucydatingmobile-300x189.gif" alt="Phone Dating" title="Mobile Dating" width="300" height="189" class="size-medium wp-image-259" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">Phone Dating</p></div>
<p>When mobile phones became popular American company Motorola was the leading by the number of handsets it sells to the rest of the world, Finish company Nokia then came on the market with innovative handsets to overtake Motorola as number one mobile phone manufacturer. Nokia has occupied the number one spot for many years until its dominance was being eating away gradually by like of Apple and Samsung when Smartphones became the order of the day. Nokia has itself been knocked off the number 1 position by Korean company Samsumg. In the first quarter of this year, Samsung shipped 93m phones compared to almost 83m by Nokia.</p>
<p>The rise and rise of online dating is predicted by the dating industry analyst to result in the Nokia , Samsung moment. Accessing online dating sites via desktop computers has been the order of the day but Smartphone and tablet computers such as iPad are beginning to change that. It is estimated that 25% of online dating site users such as customers of Saucy Dating access their dating account or register for a new dating account via the dedicated <a href="http://m.saucydating.com/">adult mobile phone dating site</a> set up for phone and tablet computer users.</p>
<p>Though it is predicted that accessing a dating site via mobile device will overtake the use of desktop but the death of desktop computers is grossly over exaggerated because millions are still being shipped out every year and the comfort offered by use of computer still by far outweigh the use of devices such as smartphone and iPad.</p>
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		<title>How To Meet Rich Men</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 30 Mar 2012 15:11:49 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Arjen</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[A recent rash of dating gurus and their controversial guidebooks show women how to meet rich men. Yes these women who want money &#8211; and lots of it. What happened to the entire feminist movement, never mind equality? And now lots of these shameless women have written books, provide seminars and now also hold private [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>A recent rash of dating gurus and their controversial guidebooks show women how to <strong>meet rich men</strong>. Yes these women who want money &#8211; and lots of it. What happened to the entire feminist movement, never mind equality? And now lots of these shameless women have written books, provide seminars and now also hold private lessons on how to bag a sugar daddy.</p>
<h3><strong>The Decade of Mercenary and Shameless Women</strong></h3>
<p>Basically women want to be able to go on holidays or even shop without having to save up. It sounds mercenary, but according one of well known dating authors Lisa Johnson, who wrote &#8220;How to Snare a Millionaire&#8221;, it stems from the caveman days. In those days the best hunters, gatherers and providers where what women looked for when ready for motherhood.</p>
<p>Many women dream about living in a fairy tale. Maybe you have lived a life of struggles and hardship and want to <strong><a href="http://sugardaddie.com">meet rich men</a></strong>. So how do you meet rich men and is it really that straight forward. You can always go out to parties where the rich men hang out. Although there is another way, probably for most a more accessible way to meet a sugar daddy.</p>
<h3>Find a Rich Man Online</h3>
<p>With the internet popularity growing rapidly, a lot of dating sites have emerged for those women looking for rich men. One of the most important reasons why women prefer the online approach is because it is a lot easier and hassle free. You won’t have to dress yourself up and go to several different places just to get a chance to meet the millionaire bachelor of your dreams.</p>
<p>The best thing is you don&#8217;t need to spend a lot of money. In fact, all you need to pay for is the registration fee. After that women will be able to connect with literally hundreds of single millionaires without having to spend lots of money. This is reason enough for those women to sign up with an online dating site and find their sugar daddie.</p>
<h3>The Rich Men Dating Scene and the Pitfalls</h3>
<p>Although it is easy to find find and meet rich men online, you have to be careful for scammers and conmen. Unfortunately you will find these people also on the rich dating scene. It is important to be vigilant not to fall for the tricks of these types of people. Especially those totally new to the online dating scene in general.</p>
<p>At the end of the day it all depends on your own preferences if you feel that dating rich men over the internet is advantageous or disadvantageous. The other factor is how much time and effort you are willing to put into it. Just carefully think about what you are looking for first before you jump into it.</p>
<h3>Meet Rich Men Today</h3>
<p>Online dating is not something that should take lightly. There are many dating sites on the internet which all promise they can provide the needs of their clients and make them happy. Although most of these sites seem to offer the general dating advice and tips, they are not always what they seem. Do your home work&#8230;</p>
<p>From our research we found some sites who have a large number of members and have get good feedback from their members too. One of the sites &#8211; www.sugardaddie.com, which is the first and original &#8216;sugar daddie&#8217; site, is a well established site with a good reputation under it&#8217;s members.</p>
<p>So to find a classy, attractive and affluent man <span style="text-decoration: underline">please visit sugardaddie.com to <em>meet rich men</em> today</span>!</p>
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		<title>Taking a Realistic Approach Dating Sites</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 28 Mar 2012 12:35:51 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>luqman</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[If you are one of the many people who have grown tired of being alone and are ready to jump head first into online dating then there are a few things you should know. First of all, online dating sites require some work if you are going to get noticed. The first thing you want [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div id="attachment_243" class="wp-caption alignright" style="width: 375px"><a rel="attachment wp-att-243" href="http://www.imyoursdatingsites.com/taking-a-realistic-approach-dating-sites/dating-2/"><img class="size-full wp-image-243" title="dating" src="http://www.imyoursdatingsites.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/03/dating.jpg" alt="Dating" width="365" height="297" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">Dating</p></div>
<p>If you are one of the many people who have grown tired of being alone and are ready to jump head first into online dating then there are a few things you should know. First of all, online dating sites require some work if you are going to get noticed. The first thing you want to do is plan out carefully what your bio will look like. Do not say you are into hiking and the outdoors if you do not even like pitching a tent in your own backyard. Being honest in your profile will draw more like minded people. Do not be boastful yet show confidence. No one will show interest in a conceited person but at the same time you do not want to appear too insecure about yourself. Be as truthful as possible about who you are.</p>
<p>The next step is the visual and this is quite important for obvious reasons. You will eventually meet the person who responds to you; at least that is the assumption. For this reason, when looking for an online date be sure your photographs show a very real picture of what you look like. After all the truth is going to come out in the long run, isn’t it? For example, if you have a severe acne problem, don’t try and hide it by posting only pictures which conceal your condition. You do not want to have any surprises when the meeting time comes.</p>
<p>When looking for a date, online dating sites can be helpful and the last thing to do is be sure to set realistic goals as to what you want in a person. Do not say anything silly like “must be totally honest at all times and never cheat” as this might make you look a little too mistrusting ort clingy. Keep it light like “Looking for someone to share walks with at moonlight, who likes old movies and pets.” Be sure you include all the things you are looking for and maybe not so much of what you are not looking for. You will get your chance soon enough to find out whether the person you meet is suitable for you. Search on <a href="http://www.smooch.com/" target="_blank">www.smooch.com</a> today to find your perfect match.</p>
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		<title>Finding That Special Someone in the UK</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 28 Mar 2012 12:24:31 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>luqman</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Online Dating Sites]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[Setting up your profile on an online dating site can be an intimidating process because you&#8217;re not really sure what to expect. After all, with millions of people browsing the Internet and hundreds of thousands of them signed up for UK date sites, it seems unlikely that your perfect match would stumble upon you within [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div id="attachment_239" class="wp-caption alignleft" style="width: 340px"><a href="http://www.imyoursdatingsites.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/03/online_dating.jpg"><img class="size-full wp-image-239" title="online_dating" src="http://www.imyoursdatingsites.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/03/online_dating.jpg" alt="Dating" width="330" height="208" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">Dating Online</p></div>
<p>Setting up your profile on an online dating site can be an intimidating process because you&#8217;re not really sure what to expect. After all, with millions of people browsing the Internet and hundreds of thousands of them signed up for <a href="http://www.ukdate.com/" target="_blank">UK date</a> sites, it seems unlikely that your perfect match would stumble upon you within a reasonable timeframe. Nonetheless, if you utilize the proper tactics and techniques to make your profile biographical information appealing and accurate, there&#8217;s a good chance you&#8217;ll attract individuals that would actually be attracted to you in real life.</p>
<p>Likewise, if you become proficient at examining other people&#8217;s profiles and looking for the characteristics in a date that are most valuable to you, you may be able to find individuals who would interest you offline. Similarly to looking for someone to date locally, enrolling in online dating sites gives you the capability to chat/court with partners, without having to leave the safety or comfort of home. When you&#8217;re searching for that special someone you probably have a good idea of what you&#8217;re looking for in terms of personality and looks. If you&#8217;re looking for a <a href="http://www.ukdate.com/uk-date.aspx" target="_blank">date the UK</a> dating sites available online provide an ideal venue in which you can find and compare prospective dating partners.</p>
<p>Ultimately, finding that special someone in your area of the world may require you to take some chances and broaden your horizons beyond those that are limiting you to local opportunities. Online dating sites give you a way to reach out to individuals that you wouldn&#8217;t normally have the confidence to approach in typical social situations. In fact, there are no real-life counterparts to online dating sites that are as nearly as effective. For example, it would be hard to imagine walking into a building and immediately choosing people out of the crowd that you like to date. Online dating sites give you an extensive selection of partners to choose from, and therefore heighten your chances of finding that special someone in the UK.</p>
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		<title>A Fuller Experience In Life</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 02 Feb 2012 14:28:58 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>russell</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Interracial Dating]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[The evolution of society&#8217;s norm throughout man&#8217;s existence has been nothing short of astonishing and controversial. A few decades ago, things like taboo were kept away from, but now they are perfectly normal in today&#8217;s modern society. When and how did this happen? &#160; When doing a little research online regarding acceptance of inter-racial unions, [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div id="attachment_235" class="wp-caption alignleft" style="width: 124px"><a href="http://www.imyoursdatingsites.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/02/mixedmarriage.jpg"><img class="size-full wp-image-235" title="Mixed Race Marriage" src="http://www.imyoursdatingsites.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/02/mixedmarriage.jpg" alt="Mixed Race Marriage" width="114" height="170" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">Mixed Race Marriage</p></div>
<div id="attachment_236" class="wp-caption alignleft" style="width: 210px"><a href="http://www.imyoursdatingsites.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/02/interracialrelationship.jpg"><img class="size-full wp-image-236" title="Inter racial relationship" src="http://www.imyoursdatingsites.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/02/interracialrelationship.jpg" alt="Inter racial relationship" width="200" height="134" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">Inter racial relationship</p></div>
<p>The evolution of society&#8217;s norm throughout man&#8217;s existence has been nothing short of astonishing and controversial. A few decades ago, things like taboo were kept away from, but now they are perfectly normal in today&#8217;s modern society. When and how did this happen?</p>
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<p>When doing a little research online regarding acceptance of inter-racial unions, one thing becomes blatantly obvious: between the two predominant reactions, nonchalance and outright antagonism, the latter is slowly and steadily losing ground as it gives way to more liberal ways of thinking. Make no mistake, racism is still rampant and not only between blacks and whites. These days, racial discrimination can also be found in remote areas of the world. The Chinese would hardly take a second look at the Japanese nor is it often that we see an American or German marrying an African bride. Why is this so?</p>
<p>Skin color is one contributing factor.  In 2009, a white U.S. court judge denied a couple their right to get married. The man was black and the woman was white. His argument was that he did not want their offspring to spend his or her life being ridiculed by others because of the mixed blood-line. To the majority, this is an unethical and biased move for a judge. Surprisingly, however, there are quite a number of people who agree with him, but not one of them is a psychologist whose opinion would have had more weight than that of any judge. In the end, the couple got married by another judge. They sued the first judge for what he did to them. Eventually, the judge resigned from office succumbing to the public&#8217;s outrage.</p>
<p>When something new or strange is introduced into someone&#8217;s normal world, it is instinctively met with a mixture of curiosity and apprehension. There is no denying that it takes a conscious effort for, say, an Asian guy to get himself to even introduce himself to an African lady. Following that, there are those huge barriers such as culture, language, religion and so on. Going beyond a couple&#8217;s romantic relationship, if the judge&#8217;s excuse was to be believed, there are apparently more challenges that remain to be conquered.</p>
<p>All things considered, it may seem exceedingly difficult to maintain an inter-racial relationship. You would be surprised to know that this is far from the truth. In fact, surveys have shown that inter-racial dating and the consequential relationship following that actually last much longer than the average same-race couples. Why is this the case?</p>
<p>Common sense dictates that, in general terms, these two individuals are so diverse from each other that they&#8217;re both sensitive to one another&#8217;s disposition. They both have at least one thing in common which holds them together and serves as their foundation in building a stronger relationship. The constant adjustments that each has to make for the other actually serves to maintain their interest in each other. This goes on until both eventually end up feeling comfortable in their relationship.</p>
<p>Author Bio:<br />
Russell Collins has written extensively regarding issues such as this and Over 50 Dating. He can be found contributing his research and opinions at http://over50datingnow.com among others.</p>
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		<title>First Impressions Can Make or Break A Date</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 27 Jan 2012 15:10:07 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Computers have changed the way we do everything. Just try to imagine for one minute what the world would be like without them. It would be a much different place. Computers have even become the norm for dating. There are hundreds of online dating sites out there that boast true connections, or the ability to [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class="wp-caption alignnone" style="width: 310px"><img title="First impression counts" src="http://www.ozami.net/wp-content/uploads/2012/01/pursuitandpistanceinonlinedating-300x199.jpg" alt="First impression counts" width="300" height="199" /><p class="wp-caption-text">First impression counts</p></div>
<p>Computers have changed the way we do everything. Just try to imagine for one minute what the world would be like without them. It would be a much different place. Computers have even become the norm for dating. There are hundreds of online dating sites out there that boast true connections, or the ability to find your soul mate. There are even several online dating sites that specialize in over 50 dating.</p>
<p>How do Online Dating Sites Work?</p>
<p>Most of these sites work in the same fashion. You register with the site, and you make a profile that tells all about you. This is how other people will see you for the first time on the dating site, and we all know how important first impressions are. Your profile should be a nice eye candy, but you should resist the urge to lie in your profile. You will eventually have to meet people, and if your profile is nothing but a lie, then your meetings will never have positive results.</p>
<p>Should Your Profile be 100% Accurate?</p>
<p>It is a fairly common practice for people to stretch the truth just a little bit with their online dating profile. Some of the most common things that are exaggerated are photos, weight, and finally age. Using a photo that is a few years old is completely acceptable, but in today&#8217;s world where every single phone has a built in camera, there really is no reason to not have a current picture that really reflects who you are.</p>
<p>Should You Reveal Your Real Age?</p>
<p>It is also a fairly common practice to stretch the truth about your age, and it can be difficult to tell the difference in 5-10 years of age especially if you are involved in over 50 dating. If you are pursuing online dating in hopes of finding a soul mate that you plan to spend the rest of your life with, then you should post your legitimate age.</p>
<p>Building Trust by Being Truthful</p>
<p>The truth will come out eventually. How would you feel if you found out that you had been lied to from the very beginning? Trust is a very important thing. Being lied at can quickly shatter any trust that you have in a person especially if you have been lied to in the past. If someone has lied to you about their age, what else have they been less than truthful about? Do unto others as you want done to you. Tell the truth. If someone does not like you because of your age, then you don&#8217;t need them by your side.</p>
<p>Don&#8217;t let other people influence what your online profile should say. If everyone around you is telling you that you look 30, but in reality you are in your late 40&#8242;s, they just might be saying this to make you feel better about yourself.</p>
<p>In the end, it is your profile. The decision is yours, but you should always put your best foot forward, and that means telling the truth from the very beginning.</p>
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		<title>How to Flirt Online</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[How to Flirt Online Flirting online can be quite similar to looking for that first job after college. You know the type of person you’re looking for and there are a great number that seem to fit your criteria. The question is how do you flirt and flirt well so that your matches turn into [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<h1>How to Flirt Online</h1>
<p><div id="attachment_205" class="wp-caption alignleft" style="width: 310px"><a href="http://www.imyoursdatingsites.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/01/howtoflirtonline.jpg"><img src="http://www.imyoursdatingsites.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/01/howtoflirtonline-300x199.jpg" alt="How to Flirt Online" title="How to Flirt Online" width="300" height="199" class="size-medium wp-image-205" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">Flirt on Facebook</p></div><br />
Flirting online can be quite similar to looking for that first job after college.  You know the type of person you’re looking for and there are a great number that seem to fit your criteria. The question is how do you flirt and flirt well so that your matches turn into dates?<br />
1. Send personalized messages. Often the first contact you make with someone online is through a message. It may be a short and sweet Tweet or you may have the expanse of a private Facebook message to work with. This is one of the most important messages you will send because the person will form their first impression of you off of this message. If you’re sending the same basic message to every person, they will know. They will see that you didn’t take the time to read through their profile and delete the message.  You don’t have to take the time to read every little thing, but pick out some qualities and mention them in the message. For example: “It’s so cool that you like to rock climb. I’ve only ever tried indoor climbing. I’d love to learn some tips from you. It’d be a great sport to get my little brother involved in.”<br />
2. Let your personality shine. Keeping with the above example, we see that the sender’s personality is coming out. The person who sent this message probably likes to try new things and also considers family important. Think about why you are compatible with this person. In your first message, you have to try to convince the person that you are compatible and worthy of a response.<br />
3. Ask a question or imply response. The above example could end with the statement “we should go rock climbing sometime.” If this is too forward for the first email, make sure you at least imply a response. “You’re a very interesting person. I’d love the chance to get to know you more. I’m really excited about your response.”<br />
4. Chat during an online game. Lucky you! Your effort has paid off and someone has responded. They are flattered that you took so much time learning about them. You could go the traditional route and exchange email after email until a date is made or someone loses interest, but what fun is that.  After a few emails have been exchanged, invite them to a game online. Pogo.com is a great place to go. You can play card games, board games and even pool online! See if you can find out what their favorite game is and ask them to play with you. Don’t be afraid to share some friendly banter during the game. You can even turn it into a tournament. The loser has to pay for the first date.<br />
5. Use your cheering Squad. If you’re sending a message through a social networking site like Twitter or Facebook, chances are you found this person through  something in common. Perhaps you share a friend or two. This connection creates a certain level of comfort. Not only can these people talk you up to the person you are interested in, but you can use them to propose a first meeting. “April and Mark are coming over to watch the game Sunday. Do you want to tag along?” With encouragement from common friends, chances are the person your interested will give you a shot,<br />
It’s show time. Your online flirting has officially turned into a first date. If you’ve been honest, don’t keep yourself up with worry. Your online flirting and comments from friends have shaped the person’s image of you. They have agreed to meet you because they are now interested in you as well. Put your best foot forward and have fun!</p>
<p><strong>Author Bio</strong>: Tonya Vrba is a passionate writer. Her work has been published in newspapers and blogs. Currently, she blogs at <a href="OnlineDatingSites.net">OnlineDatingSites.net</a>. Learn more about Tonya and her work at her personal website tonyavrba.wordpress.com.</p>
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		<title>Why You Don’t Want the Perfect Relationship</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 10 Dec 2011 11:09:39 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[The Perfect Relationship, do you really want it? Every single day in some way, shape or form we are inundated with the elusive “perfect” relationship that we are supposed to be chasing after. You know the one – it’s the one that’s flowers and rainbows all the time, the one where everything is all smiles [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<h1>The Perfect Relationship, do you really want it?</h1>
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Every single day in some way, shape or form we are inundated with the elusive “perfect” relationship that we are supposed to be chasing after. You know the one – it’s the one that’s flowers and rainbows all the time, the one where everything is all smiles and laughter. Society would have you think we should be skipping to our own soundtrack with our significant other hand in hand with big smiles plastered on our faces each and every day. But let’s get real, you don’t want the perfect relationship and I don’t want the perfect relationship. No one really wants the perfect relationship. </p>
<p> Google “perfect relationship” and you’re going to get a wealth of websites telling you what to do to “create the perfect relationship”. But relationships aren’t something that you mold into what you want, they unfold the way they’re supposed to and it either works or it doesn’t. If you’re spending all your time trying to change yourself or your partner into what you want then why don’t you just find someone else to date and save yourself the time and energy? </p>
<p>In the perfect relationship you aren’t supposed to fight, you’re supposed to debate. This is all good in theory but at some point you’re going to get into a fight with your girlfriend or your boyfriend or your fiancé or your spouse and you know what? That’s OK. In fact sometimes it’s kind of a good thing. Sure, you need to respect your partner and you don’t need to be cutting them down or ruining their self-esteem, but sometimes it just feels good to get all your feelings out in the open and blow off some steam. And if you’re not fighting at all then one of you is probably lying about something or you’re one of those sacred few who genuinely get along 100% of the time (really?!).<br />
It’s not going to be a flawless experience; it’s going to take work, and a lot of it. Girls really got the short end of the stick on this one. It started with fairytales and carried over into chick flicks. We grew up thinking that there may be one hurdle to overcome, but once we overcame that we would live happily ever after. Well, here’s a newsflash on that one: not going to happen. There’s going to be many hurdles and it’s going to take a lot of work – but all those imperfections are what make it a fun adventure! </p>
<p>We need to stop spending so much time looking for the perfect relationship and focus on looking for someone who we just genuinely love to be around – imperfections and all. You don’t want perfect, perfect is boring. It’s the imperfections that make it exciting and keep the relationship alive. </p>
<p><strong>Author Bio</strong><br />
Mary Edwards is one of the contributors and editors for <a href="http://www.bestdatingsites.org/">best dating sites</a>. She is passionate about thought leadership writing, regularly contributes to various career, social media, public relations, branding, and parenting and online dating community. She can be reached at edwardsmary936 AT gmail.com.</p>
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